You
know what hurts most? When people are judgemental and criticizes for
every sudden action. In physics, they say every action has an equal
reaction, this same theory applies to the human world as well. If you
are a human, and you do every possible thing even by taking a
positive approach, you will still have a vortex of criticism drenched
in all bad and un-motivational words.
Who said if you can't appreciate someone, you have all reserved rights to criticize them and stoop them down to a level of disgrace and disrespect. No matter how quietly or positively you are doing your work, there are a certain set of people who have this bug in their head to stop and serve people with a splash of scoldings and meaningless dis-appreciations.
At the end what we all do is, either we sit in the corner and question our existence or build enough courage to challenge those mouths that doubted our existence.
You know what, a little bit of criticism every now and then from a superior person is enough to have but if you find that people find their solace by doing it – cut the crap immediately!
Tried before? Or do not know how? It is easy and pretty amazing to do that. Always remember, every minutiae to the biggest thing prevailing around us is - all in the mind. In such events what we can do is – assume things are not that bitter or fight back with an approach that shuns everyone's non-required opinion.
Try these approaches whenever you encounter your worst critics. Say hello to them with beasty smiles and try these quick approaches.
Relax your mind!
There is no way, you will receive anything worth by reacting with all your agitating feelings. Calm down the wits and make a pace with inner you to understand these things are not the hell of a deal. You can easily surpass them by avoiding such thoughts. If you feel your mental peace is more important, tell yourself that such people are not worth your time. Simply avoid them and continue on your road.
Flush it out!
No
need to store people' negative views about you. If they do not like
you – take it straight. Don't waste out single moment explaining to
them that why they need to be around you. You know your worth and
that's what matters. If your guts speak out to you saying “ you are right buddy! Go for it”, then go for it. Listen from one ear
and flush it out from the other.
Talk to them!
Talk to them!
These
cranky critics are humans too and might have a buildup of strong
fussy emotions inside them. If you think you can easily talk to them
and explain that you do not like their unnecessary habit of pointing
things in you. State them. If they understand - that is well and
good. If they don't, you need to move on to a different road.
Letting go!
Some
people do not have the capacity to withstand such people and
situation all in the face, again and again. If they have the courage
to beat your emotions like a drum, you should also have the courage
to let go of them, for final.
No matter that critic is your boss or your best friend, you cannot ask someone to come over again and again and disgrace for the sake - just because they pay you or are your bestest buddy since kindergarten. You know your worth and don't waste time in tarnishing it by involving with people who are hard to understand.
Final words!
Don't let other people fade your sparkle (unless you have broken their heart or robbed their bank account). Build a wall from critical critics if they are stopping you to grow, evolve develop into something useful!
